

A blog filled with my love of weddings, my kids, my travels, my random and sometimes inane thoughts about life, and of course postings about my dogs. Check it out, and leave me some blog love in the comments sections.
Angela and Nate
September 16, 2006
Wedding and Reception: Wintergreen Resort, Spring Green
Wintergreen Resort is a beautiful Frank Lloyd Wright inspired building right in the heart of beautiful Spring Green
The drive to Spring Prairie and the remote drive to Wintergreen was gorgeous. I’ve been lucky enough to go to some parts of the state that I have never seen before this year to photograph some lovely weddings. When I met with Angela and Nate they told me the minute they saw this place, they knew that it was “it”. When I got there, I saw why. Rolling hills, just a touch of autumn color and a beautiful natural lodge.
One of my favorite parts of the wedding day is getting to be with the bridesmaids and the bride as they get ready. It’s so fun to see them all get ready, to hear the stories of the wedding preparations, and to see the bridesmaids who are already married reminisce about their wedding day. Angela’s dress was re-created with the lace from her mother’s wedding dress and her bridesmaid Kristin made her garter. Nate works for Nike, and check out the awesome patent leather groomsmen Nike Air Force One Shoes, custom made. JUST DO IT!
There were so many people from so many areas of the country for this celebration that we ran a bit late taking pictures of groups after the ceremony. It’s just something that happens, when you have every one you love in one place, you want pictures. But I could tell Angela and Nate were getting worried, they wanted to go to another location for more pictures, and we were rapidly losing light. So I wrapped things up, we went to the second location and had we actually been on time, the pictures that you’ll see in the slideshow at sunset would have never happened. That’s what you call fate…Kismet…Karma. Whatever you wanna call it, it was some sweet light.
When we got back, Angela’s Dad grabbed me and said “How much trouble am I in for making you late with all those family photos?” And I told him that he did me a huge favor. An hour earlier the photos would have been nice. Fine. But they would have been missing the lovely sunset glow.
Kismet. Karma. That’s the thing about weddings, if you just go with the flow, trust that it will all work out and live the day, it’s all good.
And sometimes, your Dad really does know best . Even if he doesn’t know it!
Elizabeth and Mike
September 9, 2006
Wedding:
Reception: Western Racquet Club,
I have a firm rule that I do not check the weather reports for the Saturday’s that I have weddings until Thursday. They never know what they are talking about; it doesn’t help to get riled up on Monday for something that could drastically change. Then when I check on Thursday, if things don’t look so good I just rely on my second best defense: Denial. According to the weather gurus it was supposed to rain all day on
And it never did rain! Congratulations Elizabeth and Mike!
Check out their wedding slideshow to see photos from their wedding day!
Kathryn and Kevin’s engagement session
Shooting this engagement session was a blast. A special thanks to my buddy
The windy city lived up to it’s name, and when we started bright sun and wind made the photographic conditions a little challenging. But as the evening progressed on, we had some awesome weather and Dennis and I were teaching Kathryn and Kevin that it was all about the “tasty light” that made photographs great. Kevin caught on right away and when we rounded a corner at Navy Pier and saw the pastel light hitting the skyline Kevin said “That’s tasty light, right?” It sure was!
The highlight of the photo session was at the end when Kevin spied the flying swings and thought it would be great to get some photos on it. Did I mention that I don’t do rides? Like, at all? Ever? My kids have tried in vain to get me to go on rides with them. I always beg out, because, well, I’m a puker. But to get the shot, I was willing to do it. Apparently that’s the magic bullet for me. I’m happy to report I did not lose it, and we got some great stuff. Be sure to watch the slideshow so you can see my self portrait on the swings at the end. Trust me, it’s worth it.
Vana and Aaron
August 26, 2006
Round Lake,
Completing my tour of the great north woods was Vana and Aarons ceremony on a lovely lake in
Vana is one of those people who would look good in a gunny sack (does anyone say that anymore?) but when she put that dress on, WOW. It was a gown that suited her perfectly. I couldn’t put my finger on who she reminds me of until I watched the slideshow a few times and realized she looks a lot like a young Grace Kelly. The affection and love between her and Aaron was hard to miss, and the people who attended the wedding mirrored it right back at them.
No wedding goes off perfectly without a hitch, but I’d say they got pretty close. A gorgeous day, a gorgeous location, a gorgeous bride, and the world’s largest musky. Doesn’t get much better than that.
Congratulations!
P.S. When in
Hey Kim - Just wanted to thank you again for taking the time to meet with me yesterday and of course the fudge!!! The TSA agent at the airport was looking to confiscate it after the x-ray machine detected a suspicious looking object in my bag...nope, not the fudge, but I guess 600+ wedding photos look rather odd via x-ray and requires a physical examination of one's bags - during which I had about 3 agents swarm over in my direction and upon pulling my proofs out of my bag say..., "Hey that's Port Washington - I know Port Washington, I live in Grafton"," What beautiful pictures", "Congratulations"....I guess by that time I looked rather harmless and I could take my fudge and pictures and be on my way :-)
I was also really proud of myself too, I made it all the way home with some to share with Brian, though he still doesn't believe me that you told me I didn't have to share.
Alison and Dave
August 19, 2006
Bayfield
Wedding: The shores of
Reception: Bayfield Inn
When you travel 7 hours to shoot a wedding on the beach and an outdoor ceremony you really REALLY hope the weather is good. It wasn’t only good, it was spectacular. Perfect puffy clouds and streaming sun for the wedding, mild August temperatures for the fun boat ride around Lake Superior, and a picture perfect
Guests came from all over to attend Alison and Dave’s wedding, and they were all charmed by the city of
And LOTS of kids at this wedding! Alison really made sure this wedding was fun for them and her daughter Maia by having “kids hors dourves” PB&J sandwiches, chicken strips, pudding, sloppy joes! I did notice a few of the adults “sneaking” the kids food.
It was a great wedding and just what Alison and Dave wanted…close friends and family and their familes all having a great time in a beautiful setting. Congratulations!
Chasing the Big White Dress in the Great White North and other weirdness
“Chasing the big white dress” comes from when my oldest son told someone that’s what I did for a living when he was 5. It was career day at school and I walked in prepared to talk to kindergarteners about photography in the most basic terms. Outside the door, each child had written what their parents did for a living. Next to my name my son wrote “My mom chases the big white dress for the Home Depot”. At that time, I worked for a studio called “Portrait Depot” and shot weddings for them. How he came up with the big white dress theory, I have no idea. But it has become my standard, and all my friends and family have adopted it.
Kim’s friend: “Whatcha doing on Saturday?”
Kim: “Whatcha think I am doing, it’s June.”
Kim’s friend: “Chasing the big white dress”
Kim” “Duh”
Kim’s Stepmother: “Honey, we are thinking of having a cook out on Saturday. Can you and the boys come?”
Kim” “Uh, it’s Saturday. You know, SATURDAY, in the summer. If it were February, maybe”
Kim’s Stepmother “Ohhhhh. Right. Big white dress”
Kim: “Duh”
So in that spirit, I am going to be out of the studio from tomorrow, August 18 where I will travel to Bayfield
Also, I am so PSYCHED because I get to add to my collection of photos in front the weird landmarks in Wisconsin…oooh, that’s gonna be a good blog addition for the slow months. You cannot believe how many odd Plexiglas faux animal replicas there are in
So, I will be OUT of the studio August 18-28th. They haven’t heard much of that newfangled thing called CELL SERVICE or the INTERNET up in them thair parts. I’ll do my best to check in, but if I am MIA it’s because I can’t get a signal. Likely I’ll be totally on a fudge high, anyway.
Patrick and Becky
August 12, 2006
Wedding: St Albert the Great, Sun Prairie
Reception:
Let’s just say I knew this was going to be a wild wedding when one of Becky’s bridesmaids’ looked at her in her gown and said to her: “Yeah Beck. You’re bringing Sexy Back”. Then there was the moment when Patrick realized 30 minutes before the ceremony that the rings were at the hotel room…20 minutes away. At first he said some things that I am pretty sure are not allowed in a Catholic Church, but then they handled it just like Becky and Patrick handle things…with humor, a shrug of the shoulders and the optimistic attitude that it would all work out. And it did. The rings were there for the ceremony, I didn’t ask how.
The reception. Here is my true confession. I know all of you go to a few weddings a year, tops. All that fun, kinda retro music is great for getting people out on the dance floor. Stuff you might LOVE I am so desensitized to that I barely hear the music since I hear it all the time, I just react to how people are dancing. So then chicken dance comes on and WHOOOO-HOOOOOOO…the chicken dance!!!! SO. MUCH. FUN….right? Now just imagine you are a wedding photographer. And 35 out of 52 Saturdays of your life every year you get to hear the chicken dance. Suddenly not so charming, is it? This is the one time I can confess…when the UW Marching Band comes in surprising all the guests and plays the chicken dance and 375 people go WILD and start doing it, it’s BIG FUN. Thanks to Patrick and Becky, I’ve gotten over my cynicism about the chicken dance.
Now I just have to work on liking “We Are Family” again. Who’s gonna help me out with that one?!!
Lori and Chris
August 5, 2006
Wedding:
Outdoor Photos:
Reception: Country Springs, Pewaukee
Who knew people who majored in math could be so fun?! I’d met Lori and Chris a few times and found them to be really sweet and charming and just a really NICE couple. What I did not count on was their razor sharp wit underneath all that NICE-ness. A few times during the wedding reception I caught myself cracking up because of all of the unexpected funny moments.
I loved this idea…instead of kissing when the guests “dinged” the glasses, Lori and Chris had on each table a series of obscure questions about themselves. Things that were not easily guessed like “What gift from Lori’s mom is on top of the toilet in the bathroom?” And each table had different questions. I have to say, I think Lori and Chris ended up kissing MORE than the norm, though . The guests were RABID to find out the answers and they traveled from table to table to ask if anyone knew the answer to their questions.
They also had M&M’s on the table and would kiss when people brought up 5 orange M&M’s. There was a whole lotta kissing going on during dinner .
Before the wedding started, Lori found herself suddenly very nervous, a little light-headed and nauseous from the excitement. So we moved her into a cooler room, and within a few minutes she was okay. When I asked her if she was doing alright before her brother walked her down the aisle she said “I’m much better. I found that if you just burp when you get nervous, it really helps. And you can put that on your blog!”
Just a little tip from someone who’s been there to any of my upcoming clients Burp. I had not idea this blog thing would turn into such a wealth of wedding information!
Congratulations!!
Monica and Jason
July 22, 2006
Wedding:
Reception: Elm Grove Women’s Club
Ever hear the theory of six degrees of separation? See if you can follow this. My friend Tracey nannies for my friend Angie. Monica and Angie are friends. Tracey’s sister Julie worked with Jason, and knew he was single and told Angie she had someone perfect for Monica. So Angie and Julie introduced Monica and Jason. And the rest, as they say, is history. So Angie called me a few months ago and said “I know there’s NO chance you’re open on July 22, my friend Monica is getting married.” But I was. Karma, fate? When things like that happen you know there’s a reason for everything.
Because they are just so cute, I had to include a few of their engagement photos in the slideshow. We took the photos at the place where they met and took their first walk together. And one year later to the day, they married.
Congratulations!
Adrienne and Chris
July 15, 2006
Wedding: Gesu Parish, Marquette University
Reception: Historic Pfister Hotel
This is probably the third wedding I have photographed for what I affectionately refer to as “Marquette People”. And without exception, every single one of those weddings have been great. Happy people. Fun wedding parties. And most of all, just a great spirit of FUN. Adrienne and Chris didn’t let me down. Even though it was HOT. And not just, oh, a little warm, but HOT HOT. But that didn’t deter them at all.
As I was editing this wedding, I kept laughing. Because in about 90% of the pictures, Adrienne is laughing. I couldn’t believe it, there are maybe 5 pictures from the wedding where she is not laughing or smiling. You’d be laughing and smiling too if you married a great guy like Chris. When they were planning the wedding at the Pfister Adrienne wanted the pretty purple chair covers to complete her wedding dream, but the practical side of her won out and she decided that was too big of an added expense. So as a surprise to Adrienne, he contacted the Pfister and got her the chair covers without her knowing it. I think she just married the man of her dreams.
Erin and Adam
July 8, 2006
Wedding and Reception:
I know after reading these wedding blogs you must think to yourself “Could Kim possibly really like each and every one of her clients THAT much?” The answer is yes. I mean, COME ON. Check out Erin and Adam’s slideshow, don’t you LOVE them by the end of it? If you don’t. there is something very, very wrong. Look at how Adam looks at her with his adorable mop of hair, look at
When Erin and Adam processed down the aisle after the wedding the thunderstorms that had been threatening all day finally hit and the skies opened up JUST as they got to the end of the aisle. It was the perfect ending…and they processed to “It a Beautiful Day” by U2. It was a beautiful day all around. You don’t have to have perfect weather to have the perfect wedding. You just gotta have the love. Erin and Adam, they have it.


Miri and Adam
July 2, 2006
Wedding and Reception:
At first, when I heard the story of Miri and Adam finding each other I thought it nothing short of miraculous. Miri was born in
They met on the internet. Got to know each other, grew to care for each other and in a leap of faith, Adam went to
Miri speaks 5 languages, English not being her fist language. Her parents spoke no English at all. They estimated that at this wedding, no less than 12 different languages were spoken by the guests and family members. And yet, the merging of these families was one of the most joyful weddings I have photographed.
Congratulations Miri and Adam!

Sarah and Nathan
July 1, 2006
Wedding and Reception:
“It was a warm and blustery day”
Winnie The Pooh
That’s my quote about Sarah and Nate’s day! It was warm and thank goodness for the wind, because not only did it help cool off for the gorgeous outdoor ceremony, it provided some of the most fun “Blowing Bridal Veil” shots! And Sarah’s just the type of girl to roll with those things with no fuss. When her veil flew off she simply chased it down, much to the amusement of the visitors in the Botanical Gardens. And you just gotta love a girl who announces to everyone she sees, even perfect strangers, “I’m getting married today!!” I’m not sure Sarah noticed that she was wearing a big white wedding dress and pretty much everyone figured that, she was too wrapped up in the fact that she finally got to marry her “Nater McTater”. Her joy was matched only by Nate being the emotional one at the ceremony.
So now Nate and Sarah’s marriage begins. I might have been thinking of Winnie the Pooh with the winds, but Nate and Sarah were thinking of another great quote from a childrens book that will likely sum up their crazy, wonderful, running-with-the-bulls life that was in their wedding announcement:
“Let the wild rumpus begin!”
Where the Wild Things Are
Suzanne and John
June 24, 2006
Gettting Ready: Historic Pfister Hotel
Ceremony:
Reception: Miller Pavillion, O’Donell Park
One of my favorite part of the wedding day is the getting ready. It’s the part of the day that I really get a sense of what the wedding is going to be like. Is the bride nervous? Is there one of “those” bridesmaids? And it’s not always that I get to photograph the guys getting ready, but in this case I was able to see John get ready for his bride. I cannot imagine that anyone who has met John has not liked him immediately. For me, that moment came when he asked me how Suzanne was doing and I said she was doing great, and he responded “She’s really hot, isn’t she?” Which TOTALLY caught me off guard and cracked me up.
But it’s true, Suzanne looked like she walked off the pages of Bride’s magazine. And not just because of her natural beauty, but she just had a glow about her that everyone could see because she truly enjoyed her wedding day. Surrounded by the people who meant the most to her, you could see that happiness radiating everywhere. I love that. I love being able to photograph that. You can’t bottle that stuff. Even if you are hot.
Congratulations Suzanne and John!

Weddings Southern Style, Joy and Dan
June 17, 2006
Wedding :
Reception: The
So, say you are a wedding photographer. And you by chance have ONE Saturday off in 5 months. What would you do? Well, if you are me, you fly to
Second shooting is a blast. All of the fun, none of the pressure. It’s the best way to learn and grow as a photographer. Every time I have done it, I have learned something new from the people I shoot with. And shooting weddings out of
The reception lasts about 3 hours and at 11PM the bride and groom make their “Grand Exit”. Huh? No partying until midnight? No chicken dance? No polkas? Nope. They leave in a rush of flower petals and streamers, sometimes sparklers thrown by all the guests and get into a limo and they are off.
A few other things I learned while in
Enjoy lookin’ at the pitchers, and slideshow y’all!